Shadow Question: I've been sitting with something, thought I'd pass it along to anyone that might be curious where you are with this question. "Where are you performing powerful woman while quietly seducing the role of the victim?" Deeper explanation: Where do you secretly love the drama and righteousness of being wronged? We love being wronged sometimes and the identity of not being responsible. What part of you feels morally superior by being the victim instead of the authority? Victimhood is a manipulation and where do you secretly love it.